Anyone who calls another person a hypocrite immediately becomes one. Those who throw stones usually are the ones who live in the glass houses. They are eager to point fingers and dwell on the flaws of others, rarely stopping long enough to examine their own behavior. Even with the best of intentions, many of us spend our time and energy doling out advice and telling people what they should do, how they should think, and who they should be.
We are all hypocrites to a certain degree. Our time and energy is better spend working on becoming more Christlike, rather than telling others how to. Of course, some of us are lead by God to discuss His truths. The difference is that when people seek our council, buy our publications, and tune into our shows in order to better themselves, they are asking for guidance. It is voluntary collection of information.
The best bet is not to offer advice unless it is asked for. This is something that takes practice. (Particularly for us codependent types who are compelled to solve other people problems for them.) Regardless, the most important thing to remember is that we are all sinners, and we will all be judged by God. Only Jesus was perfect, and it's ok to get tripped up. Just be careful about pointing out someone else's failures!
Dear God, help me to recognize where my soul needs work. Remind me that it is not my job to fix other people, but to love and support them. I trust You to do the work in them. Thank you for loving me and helping me grow, even if it is painful sometimes. Help me to love others as You do. In Jesus' name, AMEN
Isaiah 29:13-14
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